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Keep on Track, Issue #006 -- Teaching our children about Patience April 25, 2008 |
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| Hello Welcome to Issue Six of Keep on Track
Our Focus in this e-zine is: Patience. Learning to wait without complaining. Each Keep on Track Issue endeavours to provide the reader with practical advice and food for thought.
The layout of the E-zine is as follows:
Greetings from MarianneWelcome to the next issue of Keep on Track. In this issue, we will focus on Patience. As always, these character goals speak to me as a mum, as much as what I need to teach my children. "You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance." Franklin P. Adams A harassed Sunday School teacher tugged away to get a much-too-small pair of shoes on one of her kindegarten children. Finally, she succeeeded and commented, "My, those were hard to get on." Being patient is hard work. As you know, I'm changing my site into a 3 column look. That really requires patience on my part, and I've found that I'm not that good at it. I'd love it done NOW! Every page takes time for me to changeover and I find it frustrating that the project doesn't happen quicker. Being patient in this circumstance would mean that I set myself an achieveable goal and patiently work in those parameters, without complaining, and with making time for my family members.
NewsWhat's new? You will have noticed that bit by bit I am changing my site to the new 3 column look and feel. This way you can navigate to other places in my site far easier. You will notice the Bookshop on most right side bars as well as links to the Homeschool Gallery - easier for you to add your opinions and ideas. Also, I added a page about Story Books or Living Books for Math. This is another great informal way to include maths in literature. For those living in Sydney, Australia, I've added a "What's on in Sydney page." Some of the events listed may be interesting for your family to enjoy. Also, have you seen Homeschooling in the News? Here I have a google feed of articles on homeschooling. You can choose Australian homeschooling, homeschooling in the world, home education and whatever articles have been written with these keywords will be displayed. Add your thoughts on an article. There's a new page on Dolch Sight Words - words which are frequently used and sometimes difficult to de-code phonetically. Here's a printable set of Dolch Sight Words for you to use as flashcards and games. Do you have a Dolch Sight Word Game? Add it here. We have also enjoyed building an ant farm this last month and you can read about that here. It was easy to do and it is interesting watching the small ants at work. Earlier in April, Ben held a Cold War Day. He loves organizing History Days according to the time period we are studying. He asked homeschool friends along and planned activities in a Communist fashion and in a Capitalist way. It was a great day - also an interesting lesson in behaviour for the mums! Read about it on Micah's mini-site and in Talitha's Tales. From the gallery we read about Tayler's First Book Check it out - it sounds terrific; A Question on socialization and more from someone considering homeschooling; Another question about homeschooling with littlies. Can you help give advice or encouragement? Whoever adds to the gallery - will now be voted on to be the TOP PICK each month. Your article/page/photo/nature entry will be displayed on the homepage and throughout the Gallery for the next month! Read more below:
Gallery Top Pick!Add an article, idea, family photo, nature story or whatever to the Homeschool Gallery. Make comments and Rate other people's submissions and each month a new GALLERY TOP PICK will be chosen (from the ratings and votes you give) and put on display for the following month! Join in the fun, add to the Homeschool Gallery Network of Ideas. Considering PatienceWhat is Patience?Being patient is waiting in God's good timing for things without complaining as we wait. Sometimes it is hard to be patient when you know there is so much needed to done (the laundry, the cleaning, the cooking, the school work...) and one of your children wants to tell you about their tomato plant outside - what the leaves are looking like - is it dying? how can he stop a bird from coming to eat his tomatoes? Can I come outside to see his plant? and so on. Patience is reminding yourself of what is REALLY important and prioritizing accordingly. It means taking the time to investigate the things which are important to your little ones. It is also hard to be patient when you have very small children and you wonder what things will look like in 10 years time. Sometimes we are very anxious about the future. I know that when we first started homeschooling, I was trying to write out a plan for the next 12 or so years. I really wanted to know what we were going to do in 12 years time. I spent a lot of time researching the possibilities and the approach we might take. In a way, I was hoping to be in control of all circumstances and making those decisions way ahead of time. Being patient also means that we trust God with the future. Yes, we can plan, but only God knows what the future holds. We also have to allow God to mold and grow us as we go on in our homeschooling journey. Being patient is also allowing our children to be who God has designed them to be. Some children will have difficulty learning, and we need to be patient with them when it seems so obvious to us. God has his own plan for them. Sometimes we need to show patience to the child who is so different to us - and we are still working out what makes them tick and think. We need to patiently understand them. We also need to be patient with our own and our children's shortcomings. We will fail and our children will fail in showing the patience we need to live together as a family. So, we need to be able to forgive and ask to be forgiven. What a wonderful truth we have knowing that God is patient with us. God shows his patience to the world each day, by waiting for more sinners to come to repent and believe in Jesus Christ. Because of God's great love for us and his patience towards us as we fail Him day after day, likewise, we should show patience to those around us. Some worthwhile quotes on patience: Helen Keller: "We could never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world." "A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you when forget-me-nots have withered. Carve your name on hearts, not on marble. " ~Charles H. Spurgeon "Adopt the pace of nature; her secret is patience." - Ralph Waldo Emerson "Everything that slows us down and forces patience, everything that sets us back into the slow circles of nature, is a help. Gardening is an instrument of grace." - Mary Sarton "Patience is the companion of wisdom." -Saint Augustine "Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city." Proverbs 16:32 NIV "Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD." Psalm 27:14 KJV "Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him…." Psalm 37:7 NIV "The Lord is wonderfully good to those who wait for him and seek him. So it is good to wait quietly for salvation from the Lord." Lamentations 3:25-26 NLT "Show me thy ways, O LORD; teach me thy paths. Lead me in thy truth, and teach me: for thou art the God of my salvation; on thee do I wait all the day." Psalm 25:4-5 KJV Curriculum ApplicationHow do we pass this character goal of patience on to our children and how do we teach ourselves in the process? Here are a few ideas. BibleChoose some verses from above for memorization and copywork. Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 Examples of Patience:
Check out this wonderful series of Christian Heroes Biographies. Also, George Washington Carver and his tireless experimentation with peanuts. A great study.
My 9 and 11 year old boys have decided to look after a garden. They have planted, watered, weeded their vegetables and each day they are excited to check their project. They sell their produce to me. The wonderful thing about a garden is that you need patience to see it develop. You will never reap the harvest of hard work if you are only willing to be there for the initial planting. There are hours of work involved in the long process from planting to harvesting and that's where patience and determination comes in.
That's why I like this quote:
So, gardening and botany is an ideal object lesson to teach patience. What can you teach?
If you would like to make a whole study of Botany, I love using Jeannie Fulbright books:
Literature: Read and memorize the poem, "Daffodils" by William Wordsworth.
The waves beside them danced; but they For oft, when on my couch I lie
Copy the poem, "Daffodils" by William Wordsworth (above). Trees Trees are the kindest things I know, They give us fruit in leaves above, And when a moon floats on the sky by Harry Behn (American poet, 1898-1973)
"Daffodils" by William Wordsworth or Trees (above).
Arts and Crafts
Our whole lives - daily living - are lessons in patience. May God help us to see the lessons in front of us and make use of them as we display patience and gently discuss the need of patience to our children.
Organizational TipsEvery so often, my husband remarks on the amazing quality of vinegar. This is more of a cleaning tip, than organization - but a clean house is part of organization too!Do you know that a small amount of vinegar in the dog's water bowl, will help with flea control? It is great for cleaning windows - without the streaks. Useful as a Deodorizer. Add to the washing machine as a clothes softener. Dab on one's skin as a sunburn reliever. Keeps the white in the egg if it cracks while boiling it. Check out The Vinegar Institute for the wonderful uses of vinegar.
Coming soon...More pages changed to the new look and feel, step by step, as I work patiently... :)
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